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Sample Daily Menu for a 3-Year-Old Child

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All moms want to give their kids the best nutrition throughout the day, but knowing how to do that without giving into quick fixes of empty calories can be challenging, at times.  Now that your child is three, he should be able to comfortably navigate many of the same foods you eat—the key is giving him smaller portion sizes at meals and snacks throughout the day, to fuel his high energy needs.  Below are some tips for feeding your preschooler, as well as a sample menu that guides you in food selections and portion size—use it as a rule of thumb, but remember let your own preferences and child’s appetite be the guide.

Things to know about feeding 3-year olds:

  • Compared to infancy or the toddler years, 3-year olds have smaller stomachs and lower energy needs relative to their size.
  • They tend to get full on a small amount of food; allow them to follow their hunger/satiety cues.
  • At this age, they are not swayed by portion sizes of healthy foods and stop eating when full. But new research shows that when 3 year olds are given foods high in sugar, fat and salt, they can overeat, so portion control these foods and let your child follow hunger cues of more healthful foods.

Foods to Choose

  • At two years if age, it’s time to switch to skim or 1% milk; fat can come from other sources like olive oil, nuts, and occasional full-fat cheeses.
  • Strive to make half your grains whole.  See Getting your Kids to Go Whole Grain Early for more on getting whole grains into your child’s diet.  Children need a balance of nutrients, but don’t need to get every nutrient at every meal—or even every day.  Look at the big picture, offer a variety of foods, and make meals pleasant by focusing on family, not food.
  • Since their small stomachs don’t allow them to eat big portions, they need foods that pack in a lot of nutrients.  Foods like sweet potatoes and nuts are full of essential nutrients and give your child lots of energy.

Feeding Tips

  • Plan regular meals and snacks with a variety of foods, and let children eat how much or how little they want; offering regular, planned meals can keep you from becoming a short-order cook and your child from becoming a picky eater.
  • Eat with your child and model positive eating, from table manners to enjoying food; focus on enjoying family meals together, not what your child is or isn’t eating.
  • Have your 3-year old help out in the kitchen.  Helping to cook—stirring pancake batter, count vegetables for a recipe—and clean up—wiping tables—develops useful skills and a sense of accomplishment. Many preschool ages kids can use a plastic knife to help cut bread or softer vegetables, like squash.
  • Bring foods to the table in serving bowls and have your preschooler serve himself or ask him how much he wants on his plate if you serve it to him.

Below are general guidelines for portion sizes and food groups for a 3 year old.  However, your child might eat more or less depending on his hunger and activity level.  Although you should aim to make fruits and vegetables a part of each meal, remember whole grains, protein, and fat are all necessary parts of any diet, including your growing child’s.  Follow his hunger cues and remember, children of this age fill up quickly, so don’t be afraid to give them nutrient-dense foods. Steer clear of overly rigid definitions of “healthy”—3-year olds are not little adults!

Sample Meal Plan for a 3 Year Old:

Breakfast 1 slice whole grain cinnamon-raisin toast with 1 T. peanut butter + ¾ c. skim milk 1 oz. whole grains
1 oz. meat/beans/nuts
¾ c. dairy
Snack ½ c. blueberries + ½ c. nonfat plain yogurt + 1 T. toasted wheat germ + 1 t. honey ½ c. fruit
½ c. dairy
Lunch 1 small or half salmon burger with small whole-wheat roll, 1 T. light mayo, 2 leaves romaine, ½ c. sweet potato fries* 1 small orange 2 oz. meat/beans
2 oz. whole grains
¾ c. vegetables
½ c. fruit
Snack ¼ c. carrot sticks with 2 T. hummus (counts as 1 oz. meat/beans) ¼ c. vegetables
1 oz. meat/beans
Dinner ½ c. whole-wheat penne with 2 t. olive oil**, ¼ c. fresh tomatoes, basil, 1 oz. whole-milk mozzarella + ½ c. steamed or sautéed green beans with olive oil  + ½ c. strawberries + ½ c. ice cream 1 oz. whole grains
¾ c. vegetables
¾ c. dairy
½ c. fruit
Snack 5 multigrain crackers, 5 almonds 1 oz. whole grains

* Many stores sell sweet potato fries that you can easily reheat in the oven. Check the ingredient list and steer clear of brands with lots of junky fillers.  Or, make your own with this easy recipe.
** This is just a rough guideline—when your child is hungrier, you’ll probably see this amount go up!

The active child of this age needs between 1200 and 1600 calories. This plan is based on the food group breakdown for 1400 calories.

Calories 1423 kcals
Fat 61 g
Protein 53 g
Carbohydrate 176 g
Fiber 24 g

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About the Author

Kerri-Ann is a registered dietitian nutritionist who specializes in adult, child and adolescent weight loss, and wellness counseling, and lives in Vermont. Kerri-Ann empowers people to make healthy changes that last. Through writing, teaching, and nutrition coaching, she helps individuals get healthier in a way that's fun, not forced. She likes pretty much all whole foods, but is partial to kale, coffee, black beans, pie and peanut butter (not necessarily all in the same meal).

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2 responses to “Sample Daily Menu for a 3-Year-Old Child”

  1. Geraldine says:

    Love this!!!! Thanks for the great advice!

  2. Temi says:

    Thank you. This is a very nutritious day for anyone really.
    Thank you for empowering us with ideas to keep our family healthy. My little one starts preschool upper Monday, and I had never had to pack her lunch because her daycare took care of that. I wanted to make sure I was giving her the right nutrition she needs for her day. Thanks again, and God bless you. 🙂

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