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Sample Menu and Meals for a 4 Year Old

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Sample Menu and Meals for a 4 Year Old

Check out these sample meals for a 4-year-old for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks that the whole family can benefit from!

Most 4-year-olds want to be independent and explore everything! Establishing good eating habits can be much easier and simpler with just a little guidance. Healthful eating habits are acquired when parents focus on nurturing their child’s independent minds in a way that promotes growth and development while also encouraging healthy eating habits. Let’s take a look at how you can do that with these meals for a 4-year-old.

Getting Started with Family Meals

By presenting healthful choices at an early stage, you allow your 4-year-old to develop decision-making skills and eating habits that they can carry into adulthood (1). Mealtime should be enjoyed together. Family meals help give your child the independence to choose from the healthy foods you provide. Growing up, my parents used mealtimes as a way for me and my sister to make our own choices, and we loved feeling like we were adults serving our own plates! Read this interview with dietitian Jill Castle for more tips on how to make mealtimes a positive experience for everyone!

Here are some of my favorite combos that will please their taste buds and their bodies!


Banana Oatmeal Smoothie with Whole-Grain Toast and Peanut Butter

  • 1 banana
  • ¼ cup raw oats
  • 1 cup skim milk or fortified soy or nut milk
  • ½ teaspoon cinnamon
  • ¼ teaspoon nutmeg
  • ½ teaspoon flaxseed (a food that fights cancer)

Blend and serve with a side of toast with peanut butter. If there is leftover smoothie, you can drink it or save it for an after school snack.

Snack #1

Celery & Carrots with Hummus

  • ¼ cup celery sticks (not sliced too thick)
  • ¼ cup carrot sticks (not sliced too thick)
  • 2 tablespoons of hummus


Salmon with Crackers

  • 1 ounce of canned salmon (good for brain and heart health)
  • ½ teaspoon of extra virgin olive oil (heart-healthy fat) or mayo
  • ½ lime or lemon
  • Sea salt
  • Whole-grain crackers
  • ¼ cup grapes

Nutrition activity and cookbook for kids with the Super Crew

Snack #2

Apple Crunch

  • ¼ cup finely chopped walnuts
  • ¼ teaspoon cinnamon
  • 1 small apple, cut into slices
  • ¼ cup of plain yogurt

In a bowl, toss sliced apples with cinnamon and walnuts and add yogurt for some tartness.


Chicken Soft Tacos

  • 2 corn tortillas
  • ¼ cup shredded romaine
  • 1 ounce of shredded chicken
  • 1 tablespoon guacamole
  • 1 tablespoon red bell pepper cream sauce

To make the cream sauce, use a blender to puree 1 cup plain yogurt, sea salt, ½ lime or lemon juice, half bell pepper, ½ teaspoon garlic and onion powder. Top the tortillas with the romaine, chicken, and guacamole—drizzle the cream sauce over it and enjoy!

How to Be a Positive Role Model

If you’re eating these types of healthy foods with them, your kids are more inclined to eat them as well! Get tips with the Healthy Kids Today activities, lesson plans and fun activities! And remember: when you offer new foods, don’t feel discouraged if they don’t like it right away. It takes several attempts before they either love it or prefer not to have it. Having patience is important! Stay on track by having a balanced diet and activity level per USDA guidelines for you and your little one.   

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Jessica Martinez

Jessica Martinez is currently a student in the Nutrition & Dietetics Coordinated Program at Loma Linda Universitys School of Allied Health Professions. In here early 20’s she was diagnosed with Celiac Disease, and through nutrition has improved her health. She wants to continue to empower others to help them build a better lifestyle through nutrition and exercise.

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