Making Mealtime Family Time
By: Barbara Mayfield, MS, RD, CD
Do family meals really make a difference?
Family meals are more than just food. Meals provide a regular opportunity for families to connect with each other and share not only food but also their lives. The conversation and laughter around the table builds relationships that strengthen families and make children stronger, smarter, and healthier. Family meals have been found to be associated with better grades, less risk-taking behaviors, more courteous children, positive emotional well-being, and healthier diets.
How does an "on-the-go" family achieve family
meals?
With a little planning and some practice, it isn't impossible
to make family meals a reality. Focus on these three areas to help bring your
family together at mealtime:
- Plan Ahead. First, take a good look at your family's schedule
and figure out where and when meals will take place during the upcoming week.
Then plan meals to make them work with your schedule. If some days you have
more time in the morning, use your Crockpot for meals that are ready in no
time at the end of the day. Another strategy is to prepare several meals
on the weekend to freeze and then cook later that week or month.
- Be Prepared. Always have stock items on hand for several
menus your family likes that can be prepared quickly. Pasta dishes with packaged
salads and bread are a good example. Your grocery store has many easy-to-prepare
dishes that emphasize lean meats and vegetables. Healthy meals do not have
to be made from scratch. Stock up on ready-to-eat fruits and vegetables so
that even a sandwich and a glass of milk becomes a well-rounded meal. At-home
meals are also more manageable when you enlist the help of your entire family.
- Choose Healthy When Eating Out. Eating out can be healthy
when you take advantage of options like grilled meats, side salads, fruit
cups, and milk. As often as possible, avoid the temptation to "drive-thru" and
eat in the car. Instead, go inside the restaurant and enjoy eating with
your family. Even on-the-go families need to stop briefly to stay connected.
Make sure to arrange a few meals each week that can be eaten with everyone
in the family together.
Sharing good food and good conversation strengthens families
in many ways. To learn more about the benefits of family meals visit Purdue's
Center for Families web site.
Barbara Mayfield, MS, RD, CD is director of the Promoting Family Meals Project through Purdue University's Center for Families. She also teaches a capstone course for senior dietetics students in communicating nutrition effectively. She has created Nutrition Curriculum resources for teaching preschoolers, youth and college age audiences.